Monday, January 6, 2014
Visiting Sanxia(2)/ Charles Chuang
Visiting Sanxia(2)/ Charles Chuang
I like to continue to search my ancestors and I believe that I should be a native
Taiwanese, an Austroindonesian Ping Pu Race. Yet my great grandmother was
a woman with a pair of binding feet. Binding feet was a Chinese custom. According
to my eldest sister, Mary’s explanation, our great grandmother was from an
acceptable family occasionally encouraged my mother to consider my father was
out of a stone not from such a discussed family. My mother did not feel well with
me and used to consider me the same way, from a stone not from her, all because
that I was not disciplined and disobedient. Mary indicated that my paternal grand
father died when my father was 5 years old, in 1915. My grandmother should be only
28. After 4 years, in 1920, there was her second son with a surname Hong. We knew
That she re-married. This uncle Hong was eventually the head of her family until 1987
when he died. My younger brother, Jien Feng, went to the public sponsored funeral
service and brought back his photo and ash to Huwei for the symbolic of coming home.
Actually, there was another brother, Ming Kuei, with a third surname. We don’t know
whether he is alive or not. He might be deceased without informing Jien Feng. Such
miserable families, such suffering for our ancestors, yet there is one and only one
branch of families coming out of the struggle. With the heavenly luck, the ancestors’s
protection, we are free of such suffering, we should look around to see if any of us
is miserable now among us? All person have a mind which cannot bear to see the
suffering of others. This is what I admire the most.
Mary visited Sanxia when she was a child; Hui-Mei and Yancy accompanied our mother
to visit our grandmother and two uncles in the 60’s; Jien Feng visited twice, one at the
college and one was in 1987when uncle Ming Lin died. They all had the first hand
experience. Even though I am not a worthy son, I did attempt twice to show my
sincerity. I show no bitterness for my humble origin. From ancient time, heroes have
come from poor families and that is why Confucius said he was from a humble beginning
;therefore, he acquired his ability to many things. We must be appreciated to this.
It bothers me very much that we cannot resolve the two houses which our mother left.
I don’t like to see the waste even though I intend to renounce my right to inherit. After
viewing the struggle of our ancestors, witness someone is still struggling among our
siblings, I cannot see any waste of it even though the properties do not exceed the
inherit tax limit. We are all getting old, let get it done in our life time. First, we should
appoint one of us, Jien Feng is the best choice. With our authorization letter to
authorize him apply the transfer the properties from the deceased to our 7 siblings. This
is the law in Taiwan.
Secondly, after the properties under the children’s name. The estate must pay back the
loan, expanses such as tax, funeral expanse etc. We can further discuss the statement
right of the two pieces of letters. Some of you have possessed multi universities graduate
degrees which make us admire. Please utilize your talent and let us resolve this matter now.
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